Rule 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
1)" Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
2)"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
3)"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."
What I think that this quote means is that "become genuinely interested in other people" what I think that this quote means is that you should always be genuinely be interested in other people to make people like you and be welcome anywhere. If you are interested in other people then you you have more friends than what you already have because you are interested in other people. If you become interested in other people you are going to be making friends anywhere because you are interested in other people and they will be interested in you.
Smile
1.)"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. Im glad to see you."2.)"You dont feel like smiling? Then Force yourself to smile."
3.)"It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."
Remember Names
1.)" A mans name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
2.)"If you dont remember names, you are headed for trouble."
What I think that this quote means is that you should always "Remember Names" you should always remember names because if you want to make friends you must always remember there names because you are going to want to call them by the name that they are called. If you remember the name that they are called they are going to become friends with you because they also remembered your name. If you dont remember names you are going to have a hard time people liking you because you forgot there name and you are going to call them a different name that they are not call at all. If you are not good in remembering names you can also get better in remembering names by repeating the name of the person over and over again to make sure that you remember there names.
Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
1)" If you aspire to be a good conversationalists, be an attentive listener."
2)"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems.
Talk in terms of other mans interest
"The loyal road to a mans heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most"
What I think that this quote means is that "the loyal road to a mans heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most" you should always talk about things he treasures the most because he want to talk about what you are interested in. If yo talk to someone who is older than you that doesnt watch cartoons but does watch sports and you talk to him about cartoons he is not going to pay much attention to you because he doesnt watch cartoons but if you talk to the same older person about sports then he will listen to you because he does watch sports and likes to talk about sports. If you talk to a person about what they treasure the most he is going to want to keep on talking to you because you are talking to him about what he likes to talk about and that is what he treasures the most.
Make the other person feel important and do it sincerely
"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)" Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."
What I think that this quote means is that "the desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature John Dewey helping people feel important and appreciated works magic" you should always make people feel important because if you make them feel important they are also going to make you feel important to. Making people feel important will make the people that you are making feel important really important because they are talking to you and you are listening to what they are saying very well that they are going to feel important. If you make people feel important it is a good thing because you are listening to what they are saying that they are going to like you as a friend for a long time and for the longest time. Making people feel important also makes the friendship of each other be better by communicating to each other.
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